Observing International Sex Workers Day: An Escort Girl’s Perspective
Observing International Sex Workers Day: An Escort Girl's Perspective
Upon receiving congratulations today, I was reminded of the significance of this day: June 2nd, which marks International Sex Workers Day. In this regard, I felt inspired to share a few thoughts on the role of the escort industry within contemporary society.
Throughout history, escorts have existed as an inherent part of society. It is neither an obscure anomaly nor perversion but a reflection of a fundamental human need: sex. For numerous men who find it challenging to get laid with a girl due to a lack of means, self-confidence, or social skills, escorts provide a viable solution.
There are also men with special desires or fantasies that they cannot express within the bounds of a typical romantic relationship. Hiring an escort girl might be the only option for these men to fulfill their sexual dreams.
Interestingly, escorts could also play a significant role in preserving families. While it may seem paradoxical at first, consider this: when a man has unfulfilled fantasies, seeking an escort’s services allows him to satisfy these needs without jeopardizing his primary relationship. This approach promotes personal fulfillment without romantic entanglements, potentially avoiding divorce and family disruption.
Also, after years of marriage, some men may find themselves in a sexless relationship, where spouses live together without engaging in sexual intimacy. From what I have heard, it is often the wife who decides to abstain from sexual intimacy. So men in sexless marriages may consider engaging with escort girls to meet their needs and preserve their families.
I invite you to read my dedicated blog post for further in-depth analysis of the motivations behind men seeking escort girls’ services.
In addition, it is worth noting an intriguing observation: a significant number of men have confessed to me about their feelings of guilt following encounters with escort girls. They feel guilty for betraying their wives’ trust and view it as cheating. However, in some cases, this guilt experienced by husbands may motivate them to try to improve their relationship with their wives. In this sense, guilt can potentially lead to positive changes in their relationship. Stay tuned for my upcoming blog post, where I will dive into the secrets of a happy married life and share valuable insights and tips for nurturing a fulfilling and harmonious relationship.
Moreover, even though this does not happen often, some couples are so open-minded that they invite an escort girl to participate in a threesome as part of their quest for novel experiences. I have several such encounters, which may inspire me to dedicate one of my future blog posts solely to sharing them.
It also was truly surprising to me that some men have prearranged agreements with their wives, allowing them to meet with escort girls.
Based on the above, I can recognize some positive social impact of escorts.
Despite social stereotypes that paint escort girls as marginalized individuals, the reality is often quite different. Many escort girls, myself included, are financially stable, well-educated, and have voluntarily chosen this occupation. Please read this blog post to understand better the motivations that led me to become an escort girl. So as you can see, it is not always a path driven by desperation but can be a choice made among a list of options.
I firmly believe in the need for dialogue on the potential benefits of decriminalizing and legalizing escorts. Advocating decriminalization of escorts improves safety, rights, and healthcare access for both escort girls and clients. It enforces labor rights, reduces violence, and eliminates exploitative intermediaries while empowering those in the profession and creating a safer, transparent environment.
In my experience as an independent escort girl in Riga, I am grateful that the legal situation in Latvia is better than in other parts of the world. Although certain industry aspects are still criminalized, escorts can operate under certain conditions. That said, there is still room for improvement. It is high time to set aside judgments and recognize the validity of escorts, the importance of safeguarding and respecting those involved, and the value escort contributes to society.
I hope this unique perspective brings a new light to this day that has significance for me and many other escort girls. I am keen to hear your thoughts. Happy International Sex Workers Day to all!
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