Shadow Side of Me or Little bits of BDSM

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Shadow Side of Me or Little bits of BDSM

This time I got the urge to write a short blog about the kink that society does not tolerate very well, even these days. And for many men who crave this, it is unattainable in their ordinary life. Here the escort comes to the rescue. So yesterday night, I conducted a long BDSM session that turned me on a lot. Even this Saturday morning, after an intense workout, I still feel sexually aroused.

Therefore I decided to write this post to calm myself and take my feelings under control. It will be written quickly and spontaneously, so I am sorry if it comes out sloppy. I have less than two hours to get it finished and posted. In this blog, I will briefly write about what BDSM is and at what level I provide it.

What is BDSM?

I will not refer to Wikipedia or other sources here. Still, I must say that BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism. However, there is more than that, which I hope to cover below. For now, I am just writing that one of my absolute favorites are role-playing games, which are an integral part of BDSM. At the same time, sadism and masochism are unnecessary. I like to dominate and even cause a man a little pain, but I am not a sadist.

In the BDSM meeting, one partner takes on a more dominant role while the other is submissive. Utmost trust between partners is crucial for safe pleasure.

Why does BDSM turn me on?

I enjoy being a dominatrix, and for as long as I have felt my sexuality, it has been a little bit dominating.

At heart, I am a strict mistress and often a cruel woman who enjoys various aspects of BDSM – the punishment and torture of a misbehaving man. I especially adore it when a man worships me. I like to control a man. I like to watch a man get nervous. I like to hear a man gasp and moan when I penetrate or hurt him. I crave honest reactions and real emotions. I do not reach orgasm during the BDSM meeting, although it usually turns me on.

In recent years, my penchant for dominating has intensified. This is most likely because I got a meager fat percentage in my beautiful body and, as a result, a high testosterone level.

When I retire from an escort and build the relationship, I must admit that this thought has been coming to my mind more and more lately, it would be nice to have some shadow of BDSM in the relationship. I believe that there is a superior level of trust between partners when they practice BDSM.

Who and why likes to be submissive?

From my own experience, I can state that usually, BDSM services are asked by men who are in high positions and have many employees reporting to them. And it seems that the higher the position, the tougher the man wants to be in submission. I love meeting these men because they tend to be smart, and I think it is the sexiest thing for a man.

Some do not seek pain but want to get vulnerable and open to a partner. Others say that the experience of pain and humiliation makes them feel heightened pleasure. I have had other people tell me that they control everything else in their life, so they want someone else to take control of this area. A guy I punished yesterday told me that being in someone else’s complete control is absolutely thrilling.

What is possible with me?

First of all, please read this blog post to learn how to have a good time with me.

We can discuss our scenario in detail before we start, but I do not want you to tell me what to do after we start. Once we start, your only chance to change the scenario is to humbly ask me on your knees.

You can experience the following practices with me: corporal punishment or spanking, for example, hitting with a stick, spanking with hands, spanking with a racket, trampling in high heels, flats or barefoot, kissing and licking my feet or shoes, strangling, putting a ball in the mouth, tying up, golden rain on you, face slapping, breast torture, tickle torture, puppy/horse training, slavery, financial dominance, sissification, and more.

A BDSM session without punishing role-playing can leave us feeling like unfinished business. I have already tried the following role-plays: a husband caught cheating, a negligent worker, a nurse and a patient, a teacher and a student, a mistress and her servant, an army officer and a soldier, a robber and her victim. And my favorite role is a personal fitness trainer. However, it will not be superfluous to mention that I am also open to other fantasies and scenarios.

I have a variety of toys to torture and inflict pain more effectively, and I always dress appropriately for the agreed BDSM scenario.

We can meet at my place or in your hotel room; it would be great if your hotel is mentioned in this blog post.

Conclusion

BDSM requires an explicit discussion of each person’s needs, boundaries, and fantasies. Ensure you are not shy and freely share your fantasies. I will not judge or criticize you for your wishes, and I always try to accept all male wishes. I like when a man can clearly express his desires, so I do not need to use my telepathic abilities. It would be my greatest pleasure to give a man exactly what he wants. Most likely, all your wishes and fantasies are perfectly normal and healthy.

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