Triple Play: A Virgin’s Journey
Triple Play: A Virgin's Journey
Some time ago, I published a cheeky blog post on the easiest way to lose one’s virginity, and boy, it did attract a lot of virgins! It made me think about the increasing amount of male virgins in their late 20s and 30s. Why are there so many? Well, from my personal experiences, I have some explanations.
Some Common Reasons For Prolonged Virginity
First, there’s the matter of changing priorities. Many men today focus on career goals before diving into relationships. The whole “settle down and start a family” thing has been put on hold, meaning fewer sexual experiences at younger ages.
Then there’s the digital life. With social media, online gaming, and other platforms taking up so much time, real-life interactions are getting rare. And let’s face it: flirting with emojis is much easier than asking someone out in person.
Porn’s easy accessibility plays a significant role too. With endless options just a click away, some men may find satisfaction without the complexities of actual relationships. Why risk rejection when Pornhub can provide what you need?
In addition, navigating modern dating norms can be complicated, especially with shifting gender roles and the expectation that men should still take the lead. It’s enough to make anyone hesitate.
Also, girls are increasingly selective in choosing partners and have higher financial expectations, increasing relationship costs.
Add fears of STDs and unintended pregnancies, and you’ve got an explanation for prolonged virginity.
For many virgins I met, these factors combine, making it increasingly difficult for them to lose their virginity.
While some men might choose to remain virgins until marriage, the men who come to me are clearly eager to lose their virginity. Ironically, virginity seems to be one of those rare things that men are in a hurry to lose.
Consequences of Prolonged Virginity
Society often links sexual experience to things like social standing, self-esteem, and even masculinity. It’s like there’s an unspoken rule that for a man, losing virginity is a rite of passage into adulthood. If a man reaches his late 20s and is still a virgin, he might struggle with feelings of inadequacy, shame, or a dip in self-worth.
From what I’ve seen, the longer a man stays a virgin, the harder it becomes to lose virginity, mainly because of fear of judgment and rejection. The anxiety about how a girl might react to his inexperience can be overwhelming, making it challenging to start sexual relationships.
The first sexual experience for many men can feel like a high-stakes test. Suppose a girl you are with isn’t supportive or is critical. In that case, it can lead to disappointment or even a sense of failure before anything starts.
If you’re feeling anxious about losing your virginity, finding a supportive and understanding girl can make the experience more positive. I will not make fun of you if your penis is small. I will not judge you if you act weird or awkward and ask “stupid” questions. Actually, all virgins ask nearly the same questions, and it will be difficult to surprise or shock me with your questions. Often said because it is true – there are no stupid questions, only the ones left unasked.
Triple Play
Now, let me tell you about a particularly memorable man I met – a virgin at 28. We started chatting in June when he reached out to me with his story. He had a unique reason for prolonged virginity: a medical condition had kept him from intimacy, but surgery had finally made him free. He was ready to meet me at the end of July.
When we met, he was friendly, athletic, and respectable. He greeted me with an exclusive, expensive chocolate he had brought from his home country. We started with drinks in the Pullman Riga Old Town hotel lobby bar, where conversation flowed easily. Once the ice was broken and drowned, we headed to his room.
He was stressed, so I began with a massage to help him relax, easing into having sex. But his anxiety got the best of him, and he couldn’t finish. It’s more common than you might think – many virgins fail to ejaculate the first time due to anxiety and fear of failure. We agreed to meet again the next day.
The next day, he met me at the hotel entrance, and I brought him a gift—a special chocolate from a renowned Latvian manufacturer, one that cannot be found in supermarkets. I enjoy giving and receiving gifts not for material value but because they create a special connection between people. It’s about the thought and the bond that is strengthened through the joy of giving.
Once again, we lingered at the lobby bar for a while before going to his room. He seemed calmer and less stressed this day. I began with a gentle massage, gradually leading into an hour of oral sex until he finished. Luckily, I’m well-prepared to sustain giving blow job for such a long time. He was delighted and thrilled to see me a third time on his birthday before returning to his home country.
On our third date, I met him with a birthday surprise – a rare beer, the kind you can’t find in tourist-packed Old Town. We sipped our drinks at the lobby bar and headed to the room.
This time, he took the initiative, massaging and caressing me before we had sex. I could feel him growing more confident, exploring different positions, and finally finishing quickly. His favorite? Doggy style, where he finished with a beaming smile.
Afterward, he sent me the sweetest message, full of thanks and compliments, and even left a glowing review online.
It was a pleasure getting to know this lovely, sincere man. I’m glad I could give him such a positive experience, and I hope our paths cross again soon. Sometimes, all someone needs is kindness and understanding!
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