Why do men meet escort girls?
Why do men meet escort girls?
Occasionally, when I feel a strong connection with a guest, it feels appropriate to ask more personal questions. One question I might ask is – “Why did you decide to hire the escort?”
Some men prefer not to discuss it, while others are open to sharing their motivation. I have spoken to many men and heard many stories and revelations. After doing my own research, I found the most common reasons why men seek the company of escort girls. This is not a comprehensive study that covers all possible reasons, as it is based only on a limited sample of experiences shared by my guests.
In this blog post, I will divide my guests into groups based on their primary motivation for meeting with escorts.
Group A: Those who are not fully satisfied at home.
This is the largest group of my guests, and it includes:
- Men with high libidos who experience their sexual needs unmet at home.
- Men who did not have sex with their wives for a long time.
- Men who have some special desires or wishes. Surprisingly, their wishes are typically quite modest, yet deeply significant to them.
Men often hesitate to express their sexual desires to their partners, such as their wives or girlfriends, due to concerns about rejection or criticism. They could also afraid to offend their wives by asking them to satisfy their wishes. In addition, some wives could be reluctant to fulfill their dreams. Oddly enough, most men do not ask for anything extreme; many just want to enjoy a blow job. And you will be surprised to learn how many wives do not even give oral sex to their husbands. Other popular requests are foot fetish and light BDSM.
They see the date with me as an opportunity to fulfill their desires, and no one else will find out about it. Nobody will judge them for their “innocent” wishes. In most cases, I can give them everything they want.
Many men told me that they have sex with their wives only a couple times per year, and some of them did not have sex at home for years. Usually, they told me nearly the same story: a wife, whom they often describe respectfully and who is still loved, after a certain point, often after childbirth, is no longer interested in sex. I have heard many versions of this story, which always makes me sad. These marriages might appear happy to outsiders, but I believe fulfillment for men in such relationships can be challenging.
Many of these men still have high libidos and can have sex several times per day. I would be lying if I did not mention that some of them masturbate periodically.
The vast majority of men from this group are decent, respectful, well-dressed, well-groomed, well-mannered, and well-educated. They are successful in their professional careers.
Meeting with these men, I sometimes see myself helping them save their marriages by supplying something they cannot get at home.
It is noteworthy to mention that few men from this group feel guilty and shame after meeting with escort. They regret having sex outside their home and promise themselves that it will never happen again. Nevertheless, some time passes, shame and guilt disappear with time, and they lust to meet again.
Group B: Those who cannot stay with one woman.
For a large number of men, monogamy is not an option; these men cannot stay faithful to one woman no matter how hard they try. They are not guilty, it is the male sexual nature. They think that getting everything they need from just one woman is impossible. Some of them are frustrated with their wives, and some are happy with their wives, but they want to try something new, add some excitement to their life, or boost their confidence.
Most of these men date the same escort girl only once. They meet a new escort every time in search of an escort who is interested in fulfilling their desires and dreams of a real girlfriend experience.
Group C: Those who are single and do not look for a partner.
What kind of men can refuse to seek relationships and prefer to date an escort girl rather than a girlfriend or wife? Men who are busy with business do not have time to look for a relationship.
Others do not have enough money for dating or just want to spend less. Shockingly, dating a girlfriend could be more expensive than meeting an escort girl, even a high-class escort.
These men assume that relationships with girls are complicated and require much effort. A girl can reject a man for various reasons. Escort girls are much less demanding than girlfriends and wives. They accept their clients unconditionally and offer intimacy on demand, regardless of their true feelings.
Some men think it is dishonorable to court a woman with whom they have no desire to build a long-term relationship but only want to have sex. They can get sex from an escort without any strings attached or other emotional baggage associated with the relationship.
Other men are insecure about their ability to please women sexually or do not want to care if a woman has a good time with them. For them, it is better to meet an escort girl and enjoy selfish sex.
Many such men choose to meet for 3+ hours. They prefer the escort girl not to rush and pretend to be a real girlfriend.
Group D: Those who have limitations or disabilities.
Some men have disabilities, psychological insecurities, or low social skills that prevent them from building relationships. Many of them suffer not only from lack of physical intimacy but also from loneliness. They need someone to share their feelings.
I can give them emotional engagement, psychological stability, and empathy. I read that intimate contact with a girl can be therapeutic and helps men feel better after a romantic date, and I totally agree with it. I hope, in most cases, meeting with me benefits their sexual and mental health.
Group E: Those who are on business or leisure trips.
There have always been quite a few foreign business people and tourists among my guests. Most of them do not meet in their home country as they are afraid to be recognized. However, when traveling, they seek help to chase away loneliness, relax after/before a stressful business meeting, or just want to get maximum pleasure on their leisure trip.
These are the ones who are likely to want to save time and make things straightforward. Usually, they book for one or two hours. But if they book a longer meeting, they often invite me for dinner or a glass of champagne at the restaurant before going to a hotel room to have romantic moments.
Group F: Those who are still virgins.
And last but not least, virgin men who want to have their first time (and sometimes also following several times) with an experienced and understanding girl. Surprisingly, there are relatively many such men, especially after I published this blog post.
Ending the story
As you can see, the reasons why men hire escorts are very diverse.
I think there is another reason that these men have in common: they all want sex with a more beautiful and hot girl than their current partner or the partner they can find in their daily lives.
Meeting an escort could be the best way to enjoy excellent sex and get new sex experience. High-class escort girl usually easy understands men’s expectations, wants, and needs.
Did I miss any other group? What is your motivation for meeting an escort? Which group do you belong to?
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